For me, it's a perk. This isn't the case for most men, due to something known as the refractory period. That's the scientific term for the span of time after sex when his penis returns to its flaccid state and cannot be touched without causing him to wince. Women don't have this, ostensibly because the Higher Power realized knew things were going to be tough enough for the females here on planet Earth as it is. To help you give your own partner a boost in the orgasm arena, I interviewed a group of anonymous men who all claim to have or have had multiple orgasms. The orgasms during the first phase of a tantric session are really different from the second wave of orgasms, but both are amazing.
No doubt your dude is just happy that you're naked and in his bed. But if you want to give him an orgasm he'll never forget , bust out one or more of these sexy little tricks and watch his brain melt right out his ears. By Carolyn Kylstra Make It Pop When you're giving him oral, slowly slide your mouth all the way down to the base of his penis use your hand as a mouth extension if you need some assistance. Then, make a vacuum suction with your mouth as you slowwwwly drag yourself back up.
You'll be really glad to know that learning how to make a guy orgasm powerfully is surprisingly simple. These 5 tips will help blow your man's mind, the right way. If you don't have that much sexual experience, then you may be nervous or even feel awkward when you get sexual with your man. That is totally normal.
Now imagine how good doing that feels for him. Body parts featuring lots of hair are open to high levels of stimulation because moving the strands triggers nerve impulses along with the bare skin, so giving him a head massage is a great way to get him aroused. READ: How to incorporate spanking in your sex life. This is partly what makes them so erotic — they can be nibbled, sucked, bitten or chewed without causing much, if any, pain.